Self Worth

Most people believe that "looking good" is more important than feeling good. For some reason we feel like we have to make sure we have approval from everyone we come across or have a relationship with. This is not true people!! Why do you need approval from other people? You don't, you are the only one you need approval from!! Most humans thrive on acceptance from others, whether that be from family, friends, significant others, or co-workers. We do this because we have no idea what our worth is, we conform and move along, forgetting to ask ourselves "am I happy" or "is this what or who I really want" This is not at all healthy!! When I was going through my addiction recovery I realized I needed to heal from the inside out instead of the outside in. I realized I no longer needed to make people believe I had everything under control and I was doing great! I didn't always need to say yes or give my all without getting anything in return or most of all, I didn't have to hide my emotions or be so angry all the time!! This is why I am a firm believer in recognizing your self worth. Ask yourself, "Who am I" or What do I like". Learn your self worth guys and you will be able to accomplish whatever it is you want too. If you don't accomplish whatever that is, you will be able to ACCEPT it and either try again or move on!!